How to use a vibrator

By Tiger

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    Vibrators can sometimes be a little intimidating based on the way they look. Trust me, they are only to help you not harm you! According to a study done by The Berman Center, 44% of women have vibrator experience and the most common reason was curiosity. Here you will learn how to use a vibrator and make it work for you.
    First things first, when choosing a vibrator pick a reasonable size. They also come in an array of colors, sizes, textures, and materials. Take the time to find one that you are comfortable with. Purchase batteries for it that are inexpensive. The expensive ones tend to burn out the motor.
   Once you get it home, inspect it for tears or defects. Wash it with mild soap and hot water. ALWAYS wash before and after use. Insert the batteries as directed. Make sure you have a private place away from any distractions. Play some music and light some incense or candles if you wish to put you in the mood. Feel the texture and turn the knob so you can get familiarized with the speed or speeds. Lay down and hold a mirror to see your vagina. Learn where your labia majora, labia menora, clitoris, vaginal entrance and perineum are located. Take your vibrator and turn it on at the lowest speed. Move it over each part to learn what your body responds to.
    After getting familiar with response, you can now take the time to play with the speed and identify how much pressure feels good for you. Some women enjoy just feeling it on their clitoris, while others enjoy the feeling in various parts like their nipples as well. If you purchase an insertable vibrator and want to insert it at this point use some lube with it and take your time. Get to know what each inch of it does for you. Play with the speed and pressure as well.
    How to use a vibrator is not only limited to independent use but also can be explored on another woman or man. Safety when sharing a vibrator is important. The best bet is to put a condom on it when sharing it with someone else in the bedroom. Use the same ideas to learn what they like as well. Men can benefit from the use of a vibrator as well. Take your vibrator and rub it on the head of the penis all the way down his shaft to where his scrotum is. At this time according to his reaction you can repeat or see how he responds to using it on his scrotum. The perineum which is the area between his scrotum and anus is also a spot to be paid attention to. Many men enjoy some pressure there as well.
    There’s a variety of ways how to use a vibrator. In a situation with a partner it can be used during touching and kissing. It can also be used during oral sex or during intercourse. Its all up to you and what you enjoy. The sky is the limit. Dr. Laura Berman, a world renowned sex and relationship expert has always believed that a vibrator is a health accessory for the modern woman. For more information on vibrators, check out this video of Dr.  Laura Berman discussing vibrators with Oprah
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